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Throwback Thursday: Emily Gassage Croy, wife of Robert Croy

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Emily Croy 2Most lives aren’t fairy tales; some less than others. Emily Gassage Croy was born in Jefferson County either in 1835 (death record)[i] or January 1838 (gravestone)[ii]. She married Robert Croy in Coshocton County, Ohio on the same day as her brother Samuel married Mary Croy, Robert’s sister, 27 March 1854. [iii]

Robert bought property in Coshocton County in 1853[iv] but by 1860[v] they moved to where his brother William lived near Cutler, Ohio in Washington County. Robert, a carpenter by trade, joined Union Army in 1862. Here is the information from the “Rolls” interview soon after the war.[vi]

“Robert Croy, son of Jacob & Margaret Croy was born in Carrol [sic] Co O March 25th 1832. Sent from Fairfield in Co “G” 92nd O.V.I. Aug. 5th 1862 Was never sick to be in Hosp. or wounded or prisoner–Took part in all the regimental actions. Was discharged with his Co near Washington D.C. June 10th 1865. Married & has four children. Stanton b. ca. 1856, Joanna b. ca 1858, Rhoda b. ca 1860 and ?”

More on his war history here.

Tragedy struck soon after the war. Robert, Emily’s husband, came home with severe hearing loss. Coping with his frustrations, while caring for four children, Stanton, Joanna, Rhoda, and Lorrain (born just before he left for duty), Emily took ill in 1870 as did her youngest daughter. Lorrain died 19 February 1870 at 7 years 7 months. Emily died 14 April 1870.[vii]

Robert’s life maintained its tragic trajectory. Robert married Mary Aikens Nelson on 23 March 1871[viii] less than a year after his wife’s death. They had a son, Arthur. It was a troubled, contentious marriage. Out of his deafness and obstinacy (as his wife reported), or because of her daughter’s loose behavior and dislike of him (as he reported), no one can know.[ix] But we do know his son Stanton drowned, likely in the Ohio River, in Belfre, Ohio on 16 July 1874. The boy was 18 years 5 months 12 days old.[x] Facing the death of three loved ones within four years (not including his father and brother), as well as living in a world of limited communication, might sour a man. He lived, moving through the years from his daughter’s home to his sister’s home, until he died 23 March 1908.[xi]

robert obit

[i] “Ohio, County Death Records, 1840-2001,” database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org: accessed 22 July 2015), Washington County, Death Records, 1867-1908, image 62 of 492; county courthouse, Ohio. [calculated]
[ii] Emily Croy, Decatur Presbyterian Cemetery, Veto Road, Washington County, Ohio [calculated]
[iii] “Ohio, County Marriages, 1789-2013,” Database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.3.1/TH-1942-22512-85444-76?cc=1614804 : accessed 24 June 2015), Coshocton > Marriage licenses 1837-1854 > image 17 of 71; county courthouses, Ohio.
[iv] Coshocton County Court House, 4 Oct 1853, Grantee: Jacob & Robert Croy; Grantor Andrew G. Woods Vol 30, pg 298
[v] 1860 US Census; Census Place: Rose, Washington County, Ohio;
[vi] Handwritten Roll of Honor document, compiled by Charles Strong Perry, 1865, Washington County Public Library, History and Genealogical Archive, 418 Washington St., Marietta, OH. Fairfield Township, pg 7.
[vii] See “i” above
[viii] “Ohio, County Marriages, 1789-2013,” Database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.3.1/TH-1942-22512-85444-76?cc=1614804 : accessed 24 June 2015), Coshocton > Marriage licenses 1837-1854 > image 17 of 71; county courthouses, Ohio.
[ix] Soldier’s Certificate No. 679496, Robert Croy, Corporal, Company G, 92nd Ohio Volunteer Infantry; Case Files of Approved Pension applications of Veternans Who Served in the Army and Navy Mainly in the Civil War and the War with Spain (Civil War and Later Survivors’ Certificates), 1861-1934; Records of the Department of Veterans Affairs, National Archives, Washington, DC
[x] “Ohio, County Death Records, 1840-2001,” Washington County, Death Records, 1867-1908, pg 104 #2266
[xi] Robert Croy Obituary; March 23, 1908 , Marietta Daily Times ,page 1, column 5; Washington Co. Public Library, Local History and Genealogy Dept, 418 Washington St., Marietta, OH.

 

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5 responses »

  1. Hello again! Thanks again for all your work… I’m a great-grandson of Arthur Croy, so this post was of special interest to me. I was wondering what information you have indicating that Robert Croy’s second wife, my great-great-grandmother, was a Basim by birth. The information I have is that her birth surname was Aikens.

    An 1853 marriage record has Mary Aikens of Belpre Twp., Washington Co., Ohio, marrying Richard Nelson of Athens, Ohio.

    https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:9392-S538-LQ?i=248&wc=Q3FJ-ZNP%3A122395301%2C122560601%3Fcc%3D1614804&cc=1614804

    I have a certified copy of Mary’s son Arthur Hannibal Croy’s birth record; this gives her name as “Mary E. Aikins.”

    A marriage record for her daughter Effie in 1808 gives the name as “Mary E. Adkins”:

    https://familysearch.org/search/record/results?count=20&query=%2Bgivenname%3Amary~%20%2Bsurname%3Aaikins~%20%2Bresidence_place%3Aohio~%20%2Bresidence_year%3A1830-1860~%20%2Bspouse_givenname%3Arichard~%20%2Bspouse_surname%3Anelson~

    Aikens seems to be the most likely spelling, based on all that I have. My best guess currently is that Mary E. Aikens might have been a daughter of Robert Aikens Jr. and Elizabeth Nash, who married in Washington County in 1818. (Ancestry.com. Ohio Marriages, 1789-1898.) There are 114 Aikens graves listed in Ohio on Findagrave, but not Robert or Elizabeth.

    Mary seems to have been the “Mary A. Aikins,” age 18, who was living with the Barnes family in Belpre Twp. in 1850:

    https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:S3HT-XH19-ZW6?i=37&wc=95RC-RML%3A1031310001%2C1031304802%2C1032886801%3Fcc%3D1401638&cc=1401638

    (Hence the difficuly of proving her parentage, since by 1850 she was no longer living with her parents.)

    I do see that Greer Croy, Robert Croy’s brother, married a Malona Basim. Perhaps you got the surnames confused? Anyway, I just wanted to ask. Thanks again, very much. You’re doing amazing work.

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  2. Ah, now I see that on your post of Aug. 23 of last year, you had Mary’s surname as “Atkins.” Well, you can take a look at the info in my earlier comment…it definitely seems to have been Aikens. Hopefully I can find evidence of Mary’s parentage someday, for the benefit of my branch of the family.

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  3. Hmmm, why did that comment post immediatelt and my previous comment didn’t? Did I do something wrong earlier? Or because there were links it was held up for approval? Here is the original comment again…if it’s duplicated now, please delete this one.

    ***

    Hello again! Thanks again for all your work… I’m a great-grandson of Arthur Croy, so this post was of special interest to me. I was wondering what information you have indicating that Robert Croy’s second wife, my great-great-grandmother, was a Basim by birth. The information I have is that her birth surname was Aikens. An 1853 marriage record has Mary Aikens of Belpre Twp., Washington Co., Ohio, marrying Richard Nelson of Athens, Ohio.

    https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:9392-S538-LQ?i=248&wc=Q3FJ-ZNP%3A122395301%2C122560601%3Fcc%3D1614804&cc=1614804

    I have a certified copy of Mary’s son Arthur Hannibal Croy’s birth record; this gives her name as “Mary E. Aikins.”

    A marriage record for her daughter Effie in 1808 gives the name as “Mary E. Adkins”:

    https://familysearch.org/search/record/results?count=20&query=%2Bgivenname%3Amary~%20%2Bsurname%3Aaikins~%20%2Bresidence_place%3Aohio~%20%2Bresidence_year%3A1830-1860~%20%2Bspouse_givenname%3Arichard~%20%2Bspouse_surname%3Anelson~

    Aikens seems to be the most likely spelling, based on all that I have. My best guess currently is that Mary E. Aikens might have been a daughter of Robert Aikens Jr. and Elizabeth Nash, who married in Washington County in 1818. (Ancestry.com. Ohio Marriages, 1789-1898.) There are 114 Aikens graves listed in Ohio on Findagrave, but not Robert or Elizabeth.
    She seems to be the “Mary A. Aikins,” age 18, who was living with the Barnes family in Belpre Twp. in 1850:

    https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:S3HT-XH19-ZW6?i=37&wc=95RC-RML%3A1031310001%2C1031304802%2C1032886801%3Fcc%3D1401638&cc=1401638
    (Hence the difficuly of proving her parentage, since by 1850 she was no longer living with her parents.)

    I do see that Greer Croy, Robert Croy’s brother, married a Malona Basim. Perhaps you got the surnames confused? Anyway, I just wanted to ask. Thanks again, very much. You’re doing amazing work.

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    • To all your comments, thank you. You caught a grievous error. I did get the surnames confused as I wrote. Will change it immediately. It is why we need a family of fact checkers. I have all the info on marriages, used when I entered them in the Ohio Genealogical Society Civil War Families. I have the Civil War Pension records, as well, where the grievances of she and Robert played out. Interested? I am very interested in Arthur. Did he end up in Idaho? I took a picture once of the signage for Croy Creek and Croy Street in a small town in that state.

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  4. That 1818 Aikins/Aikens marriage record I mentioned in my first comment IS on FamilySearch. Not that I expect you to research this family!

    Washington County Ohio marriage records, 1803-1841, V.1:

    Robert Aikins Junr. To Elizabeth Nash, Deerfield, December 10th 1818, Tho. A. Morris, Deacon, M. Chris. Church.

    Source: https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:9392-S53Z-LQ?i=54&wc=Q3FJ-6TL%3A122395301%2C122526101%3Fcc%3D1614804&cc=1614804

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